When you give your bestie full access to your relationship, you can open yourself up to a wealth of issues as they will often pass judgement about your relationship. For some people, good can come from constructive criticism, but what happens when your friend really has it out for you? Could you spot a friend who is jealous and wants to see an end to your union?
Here are some things you should look out for.
She constantly nags you about him
Some friends just want you to become as miserable as they are, and by any means necessary they will bring you down. Be careful of the friend who complains when you share some good news about your man.
She turns bitter once he is around
Do not ignore this sign. Your friend is supposed to be happy once you are happy so if the source of the happiness aggravates her, you do not need that friendship.
She hogs your time
Yes, friendships are important, but your intimate relationship should be respected. If your friend cannot respect time spent with your partner, you should beware as she may want to destroy your happy life.
She bashes him non-stop
This is total disrespect and that door should be closed and kept that way. Put a lid on what you share with family and friends because that very information could be used against you.
She disrespects him in front of others
This should tell you exactly how she feels about your relationship and it calls for a decision on your part to dismiss that friend.